Going Beyond Your Self-Imposed Limitations

Meeting of Monday, September 21, 2009

We know how to manifest. And, we know that manifesting what we want actually works. So……Why don’t we manifest what we want and get it? Here are some helpful tools from the experts.

Unconscious Manifestations: According to The Hendricks Institute (www.hendricks.com) before we consider manifesting what we consciously want, we must overcome the unconscious manifestations we developed over the years. These are self limiting beliefs we have ingrained into our lives that keep us from getting what we want. These unconscious beliefs become unconscious manifestations and we must identify them before we can correct them.

The best way to identify our unconscious manifestations is simply to observe the results we have created. The negative results we created are our unconscious manifestations. So, let’s figure out what they are.

Without realizing it, we draw experiences and people to us unconsciously and interact with them in programmed ways. Somehow we pick up limiting ideas like “I’m a loser” or “There’s never enough to go around.” Then we operate as if those beliefs were actually true. We speak the language of limitation. We say things like “Just my luck” or “People can’t be trusted.” Instead we should use the language of limitless possibility. “I’m going to make my own luck” or “I’m going to manifest only people I can trust into my life.”

So, we need to look at our negative results to determine our unconscious manifestations. Then we should ask ourselves “What unconscious patterns am I repeating in my life that created these results?” Then say to yourself “I commit to becoming aware of the unconscious patterns that limit me.” This is the first step towards eliminating our self-imposed limitations.

Accidental Self Sabotage: Eddie Conner (www.eddieconner.com) has a humorous way of explaining how we sabotage our desires with opposing beliefs. He calls it the ASS-Fault Factor where we Accidently Self Sabotage our desires with low-frequency thoughts.

Hi-Frequency thoughts feel fast, rich and prosperous. They flow fluidly from us out to the universe. The universe reflects hi-frequencies back to us 100% of the time. Low-Frequency thoughts feel negative and poverty ridden. Encumbered, they bang around with great difficulty inside of us before vibrating out to the universe. Because the universe is unconditional love, it also reflects our low-frequency beliefs back to us 100% of the time.

The purest form of accidentally self-sabotaging is through focusing on both the good (Hi-Frequency) and the bad (Low-Frequency) aspects of the same subject. When people talk about their rich desire for love they often follow it with a poor belief that they can’t have it. We accidentally self sabotage our rich desire for love with a default belief that we can’t have what we want. We’ve accidentally factored in both the desire and an opposing belief together. We don’t intentionally sabotage our desires; we sabotage by accident.

Humans think roughly 60,000 thoughts a day. How many of our thoughts do we Accidentally Self Sabotage with a belief that life is difficult?

Over time our self-sabotaging thoughts factor in great dis-ease in our minds and hearts. The universe will absolutely bring both frequencies to us every second of our lives. We will continue attracting the basis of the Hi-Frequency thoughts that feel pure and prosperous and the Low-Frequency thoughts that feel negative and tainted. If we continue to desire love in this manner we will surely attract difficulty and proof that we can’t have the love we desire. This same example holds true in every area of our lives and with all our desires.

Illusion: As humans we have a habit of focusing on the negative side of life. The longer we think and vibrate Illusions of lack the more these illusions become our physical reality.

Reality: The Universe is opulent and abundant and ready to fulfill our every desire. We must get past our accidental sabotage and step outside our habitual illusion of lack and limitation in order to experience expanded good, or Heaven on Earth.

It’s a rare human that creates illusions that are hi-frequency and beyond normal physicality. Without exception our inner realities will always catch up with us on the Earth Plane. Wouldn’t it be nice if we all loved ourselves enough inside and out to create a great reality for ourselves so that we could teach this methodology to the world?

The Complaint Fast: Unconscious manifestation thrives on complaining. We keep our childhood programming in place by complaining to willing listeners that we have been victimized. When people challenge us to take care of our lives, we often get defensive and argue that our limiting beliefs are valid and necessary.

If we want to stop our unconscious patterns, we must stop complaining. Let’s begin with a “complaint fast.” Let’s not let a single complaint out of our mouths for as long as we can…hopefully the whole day. Then let’s try to make it two days in a row, and then a third, and so on. When we stop complaining, our old patterns will dry up and blow away. Eventually we will notice that our circumstances will improve radically and there will be nothing to complain about.

Here are the steps to a complaint-free life:

Step 1: Discover what we complain about.

Step 2: Discover the people we complain to, the listeners of our complaining. These people are not our friends—they are our co-conspirators in the slow sabotage of our lives.

Step 3: Speak the following sentence out loud, from the heart, and often:

“I,_____(name)__________, commit to a complaint-free life.”

For those who like affirmations, here is one to help:

“Blessings flow in the areas of my life I used to complain about. Thank you for the gift of your participation in my life.”

Affirmations or Afformations: The point of afformations is to ask better questions, to change negative questions into positive questions.

Step 1: Ask yourself what you want. You can use existing goals or start from scratch.

Step 2: Form a question that assumes that what you want is already true. This will change how you communicate with yourself because you will begin to ask yourself better, empowering questions.

Step 3: Let your mind search for the answer. You will automatically focus on things from a new perspective, or on things you've never focused on before. You'll focus on what you have, not what you don't have.

Step 4: Take new actions based on your new assumptions about life. When we ask better questions and change our focus we cannot help but move in our new direction by being open to new possibilities, taking advantage of new opportunities, meeting people who will help us move toward our desires.

10 Top Afformations

1. Why am I so rich?
2. Why am I so happy?
3. Why am I enough?
4. Why am I good enough?
5. Why do I have what it takes to succeed?
6. Why do I have the courage to do what I love?
7. Why does opportunity come to me so easily now?
8. Why do I enjoy so much success?
9. Why do I have more than enough money in my business?
10. Why does having what I want help others to get what they want?

(All above information is from "The Secret Code of Success" by Noah St. John)

Suggested books, CD’s and websites:

The Master Key System by Charles F. Haanel
The Power of Awareness by Sanaya Roman
The Power of your Subconscious Mind by Dr. Joseph Murphy
The Secret Code of Success by Noah St. John
Creating Affluence (CD) by DeepakChopra
www.landmarkeducation.com
www.hendricks.com
www.eddieconner.com

Our Next Meeting is Monday, October 19, 2009. See you there.

The Art of Manifesting and Allowing

Topic 1: How do we manifest and allow, and why does it take so long?

Manifesting what we want takes motivation, concentration and clarity of desire. Think of what you would really like to have right now and how motivated you are to get it. Compare that with the motivation we would feel if we were told there is $100 million in a Swiss bank account that we can have with no strings attached – all we have to do is get there and claim it. How motivated would we be then?

Concentration is difficult because Abraham tells us that every 17 seconds we get a new thought. In fact, sometimes it is difficult to keep the same thought the entire 17 seconds. Our thoughts change so rapidly that we are naturally sending mixed signals to the universe. And, whatever we are thinking, the universe is saying “yes” to.

When we are motivated and are able to concentrate, we need to develop clarity of what we do want, and avoid clouding the message with what we do not want. Appreciating what you like about someone else is a great way to clarify what you do want for yourself. Be careful not to wish that you were that person, however, since you do not know what challenges that person may be dealing with.

One of the tools available to help us develop these skills and manifest what we want is a Focus Wheel. This is a process to help change our vibrational alignment with any subject. For an excellent example and explanation, click here.

Topic 2: What is alignment with source and what does the law of attraction have to do with it?

Our goal is to connect with a higher form of life, ultimately connecting with source. It is easier to come into alignment with source when withdrawing from the things that take us out of alignment. Then, by attracting a little bit of good to our lives each day, we will come into alignment to the point that we naturally, and without thinking, set an example for others to see and hopefully emulate. If you are in alignment with source, it doesn’t matter if others are not because you will be manifesting the good in your life and allowing it to come to you.

There is a great Abraham You Tube video on the subject of alignment with source here.

Topic 3: The Vortex

The vortex is a state of mind and simply means we are in alignment with source and there is no more resistance to our manifestations. Our thoughts about a subject start to feel good even though nothing has really changed except for our state of mind. Simply stated – whatever keeps us out of the vortex isn’t worth it.